Da Kinky Kid Encourages Women to Put Themselves First

Da Kinky Kid is known for being just that, kinky. However, there is so much more to her than being an unapologetically sexual being. She also encourages all women she graces with her presence to do the same. 

Da Kinky Kid was exposed to sex in a negative way as a child. Not one to be beaten down, she drew from that experience, as well as health issues that tried to dim her light, and she took both of those negatives and turned them into positives.

When she became a mom, she still marched to her own beat and wasn’t your average mother. Drawing from her experiences as a child, being raised by an open-door policy mother, she duplicated that role and was and still is very open with her children, a daughter who is 25, and a 17-year old son. 

Da Kinky Kid is clearly not your average mother, and she revels in that fact. There is so much more to her than just talking about sex. She empowers women not to succumb to the pressures of society. She encourages women to tap into their sexual goddess and she wants them to do it with the same confidence and power that they do everything thing else. 

As a former exotic dancer, dominatrix, and now educator of sex, she encourages women to go deep, pun intended, and be as uninhibited as possible. She educates women not to give themselves away for anything or just anybody, but to take FULL CONTROL of your being. In other words, don’t give your body away in expectation of gaining something, but bestow the privilege of YOUR BODY because YOU want to. That’s the difference between being a whore and being empowered, YOUR CHOICE. She also believes that if we integrate society’s rules into our intimate times, we should focus on real issues, such as, teaching our daughters how not to get raped and teach our sons not to be rapists. Basically, treat sex with the responsibility and respect it deserves.

Da Kinky Kid wants women to put themselves first as she does. That is her mantra. She knows it sounds selfish, but she stands by her words. The thing is, she says, “if we ain’t good, then we ain’t any use to others.” Truer words were never spoken. She wants women to be strong and unapologetically confident in their sexy, after all, confidence is one of the sexiest traits any being could have, and THAT is what she says gives her SwagHer. 

-MzLez

About MzLez

MzLez is a very passionate advocate and activist for women’s rights and special needs children. She has an undeniable passion for the entertainment industry, which was nurtured when she majored in Journalism and Communications with a concentration in media studies. She developed her gift for writing as a child and finally as a young female, she started publishing her work. She was born into an entertainment family and thrives on the arts, from writing, creating, and interviewing to acting. Follow her on IG at @jahblessleelee.