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How To Move On Without Being Bitter

It’s 2018, everybody! We made it! Well, for those of you who’ve been following me for a while, you know that I’m recently divorced and as such, I try to spread positivity and give encouragement to ladies who are in situations similar to my own. I talked about this before on a Facebook live video, but I think it’s well worth talking about again.

So many times we get wrapped up in our feelings. We get wrapped up in placing the blame on the person who hurt us. The truth though, is that when we focus on the negative, we don’t leave room for the positive and although we must take time to properly heal and process our thoughts/feelings, we still have to learn how to not allow them to consume us. Being bitter only hurts you.

The first thing you have to do is decide whether you want to move forward or remain stuck in the past. Whether you want things to get better or continue getting worse. See, life is what you make of it. You CAN turn your life around.

A bad breakup or divorce is NOT the end. It does NOT have to mean your life will be terrible from here on out. Learn from your mistakes and move on with your head held high. Do positive affirmations. Try new activities. Work on YOU! Learn to love YOU!

But also remember to be patient with yourself. You’re only human and these things take time. You’ll have days where you are so down you don’t even want to get out of bed. The thing is to know that it won’t last. If you choose to move on being better not bitter, the best is yet to come! Believe that!

Shakina Cooley


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