In this deeply moving installment of “Memories of My Dear Mother,” SwagHer Magazine speaks with mental health advocate and event curator LaKisha Mosley, who opens her heart to share the beautiful legacy of her late mother, Linda Gaines. Known for her strength, grace, and unwavering support, Linda raised her children with boundless love and devotion. As LaKisha honors her memory, she reflects on the heartbreaking void left by her mother’s passing and the spiritual journey that’s helped her navigate grief. Through prayer, therapy, and remembrance, LaKisha offers a tender, empowering look at loss, healing, and the love that never fades.
Please tell us about yourself.
LaKisha: I’m LaKisha Mosley. I am a mental health advocate and event curator. I help women entrepreneurs prioritize their mental health to avoid burnout.
Please tell us about your mother.
LaKisha: My mom’s name is Linda Gaines. She was a single mother until my brother and I were grown. She was so loving and attentive. She supported everything we did. She was a great cook, but just the way she managed things was amazing.
When was your mother’s birthday and her passing date?
LaKisha: My mom’s birthday is August 3rd, and she passed April 4th.
What was life like for you when your mom first passed away?
LaKisha: It was surreal. I couldn’t believe she was gone. I had just talked with her on the phone. I was sad and depressed for a long time. I couldn’t even go to work. I felt this intense void after she transitioned.
How has life been since the loss of your mom?
LaKisha: I have found my own groove to her no longer being here. With a greater understanding of grief and the journey it is, I find ways to celebrate her daily. There is still an immense loss that I feel, a void, but when it gets too bad, I just think of the good times and that one day I will get to see her again.
How were you able to navigate the loss?
LaKisha: At first I was not navigating it. I was so lost. But with prayer and counseling, I was able to find my way again.
What are your best memories of your mom that you keep in your heart?
LaKisha: There are so many memories. All memories matter after your loved one transitions. I keep them all close. If I had to pick, it would be when my kids were born and the look of pride on her face. Or when I graduated from college. She was so proud of me.
What advice would you give to someone coping with the loss of their mother?
LaKisha: There is no advice to give someone who is a part of this club to make them feel better. Every person’s journey is different and the stages of grief evolve as time goes on. The best thing I could tell someone is to cherish every memory you have and to take care of yourself on this journey.
How can readers connect with you on social media?
LaKisha: You can follow me on all social media platforms at lakishammosley.
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